Mind Your Own Business 

I want to talk about the need to control in order to feel good. It's stating the obvious that only you can allow yourself to feel good, yet, in a moment, you force a condition to change in order to feel good.

You want a better government, better education, better boss, better friends to do what pleases your ideas, family to understand you... ask yourself dear one, and, it's being asked of you:
"Who do you think you are?"
What is your Ideal? what is your inner most believe of yourself?  (the keyword being yourself!)
What do you believe of yourself? have you spoken to yourself lately?
Well, its time you answer yourself, and be mindful of your own business.
We are here to serve other people, we are here to give and give and give, (in contrast to giving, if all humankind just gave and gave and gave, there would be an endless amount of receiving, receiving, receiving).
It is time to stop, breathe and release the absolute need to control others to justify your own glory...

A war-time motto: no guts no glory.
Do you have enough guts to settle the war within your heart and mind?
Do you have the guts to come to the full awareness that you are not a sheepy sheep who needs to be led in a flock?
Do you have the guts to know that you are a co-creator with God, our ever Divine Source of All That Is.
Do you have the guts to practice non-judgmental thoughts and just observe with love that which is around you, and, do you have the guts to look in the mirror and say:
"I love you! I matter, I am a powerful co-creator with God, the essence that is in Me and I am important, therefore, in contrast, it is safe for me to allow others to express themselves as I know they too have their connection with Divine God Source, I believe in my Ideals and I am one with God and All That Is" Giving God the Glory!

Your inner need to suppress others, is a clear indication that you are feeling suppressed by your own Ideas, and looking for a 'power-high' to justify your "ideas" ; to feel good about yourself, simply because you don't know or recognize your Ideal.

Extract from Edgar Cayce's 'Handbook for creating your future'

"Ideas are not the same as Ideals, although it's easy to confuse them. Religion can be a rich source of spiritual ideals, but when zealots force their religion onto others with a "You must believe" attitude, they confuse their religion's ideals with human ideas. One way of understanding the difference between the two is to think of ideas - thoughts, for example - as things. this notion is useful because you can own material things and your ideas are a kind of possession. When you persuade others to accept them, you increase the value of your ideas, the more people you persuade to agree with your ideas, the more power and security you derive from them. Therefore, 'convert or die' has been the battle cry of every religious war in history as well as the motto of every religious zealot.
Ideals, by contrast, are not possessions. You cannot own an ideal - quite the contrary. For an ideal to become effective in your life, you must allow it to own you. for example, you can have very strong ideas about Jesus and work hard to push them onto others, but until you allow forgiveness and tolerance to influence your thoughts, feelings and actions directly, you have not accepted this ideal. By giving yourself to an ideal or value, you allow it to change you."

Sending You a lot of Love
Be You
Thought of the day:
Someone else's fuckedup-ness is your awareness, thank them in love.
To Ever Being One with All That Is

Greener on the other Side

It is Always "Greener-on-the-other-Side"; contrary to my belief my parents taught me "its Not Always Greener-on-the-other-side"..

It is ALWAYS "Greener-on-the-other-Side"!, until its not anymore, and then its "greener-on-the-other-side".

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Love Heals and Cares

Love Does Not Cause Pain

Smile

Smile with your Eyes

Often people would tell me, "you smiling but you have so much sadness in your eyes". Yes, I was sad and I was smiling with my lips and allowed my cheek muscles to expose my teeth.

After an Angel Card Message, which guided on FOCUS, I went on my day and decided to smile with my eyes -- a little experiment if you will -- I found that automatically my lips would be turned up at the corners (an automatic smile), my co-workers responded to me in a kind way, unlike before. And the concentration to focus on my smiling eyes brought me into consciousness, being in the NOW, being PRESENT.
It's great!
"Change your perception" -- If you look at the world with happy eyes, Happiness becomes you.

To Happy Eyes, Present Moments and Changed Perceptions

Chakra: Solar Plexus

Physical attributes:  

• digestion 
• nervous system
• immune system

Crystals: 

• Tiger Eye Gold 
• Citrine

Solar Plexus chakra relates to our personal power

# Gut reactions -- center of our intuitive power
# I trust my inner voice, I am strong, wise and powerful
# Solar Plexus chakra controls our ability to identify problems and find solutions to unlock our understanding, its about finding our true Desire (Desire = Deity Siring: God and the presence of God within you, giving birth to the highest and noblest aspirations of your soul.)

                                     

Know Thy Self
Knowing who you are, you can start to understand your place in the world
Fulfill your Divine Purpose.

Unbalanced:

# Desire to be a powerful person, obsessed with power
# fear of authority
# fear of being controlled and loosing control

I seek to align my desires with my goals in life 

If we haven't figured out what we really desire -- we become powerless and confused, we create multiple desires that begin to clash with each other, and unable to summon the energy or the drive to accomplish our goals, thus we don't move forward because we haven't decided which way we are going.
We master the Solar Plexus chakra by sifting through our desires and simplify our life to reflect where we really want to be going, herein with lies our confidence, power and control. The solar plexus gives us the opportunity to express our self-control.
# Do I have any crosscurrents of desires that are keeping my energy tied up in knots? what steps can I take to resolve these conflicting desires and free up my energy?
We have to distinguish at the soul level whether what we want are responding to God's desire for us or a desire that stems from an unhealthy pattern of the past -- take a step back and be honest with yourself:
# Why do I want this new _________?
# Is it a tool to express myself and fulfill my mission, or is it something to adorn my ego?
# Will it help me be more balanced, or will it take me off on a tangent?

I set aside my own desires when necessary to support and serve others.

The greatest gift, is the gift of ourselves. We are given talents and special gifts so that we can share them with others. The more we give, the more we open up the energy flow

I engage the power of my emotions as an instrument of peace

Proverbs: "he that is slow to anger is better than the mighty; and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city"

help

help/

verb

1.

make it easier for (someone) to do something by offering one's services or resources.

"Roger's companion helped him with the rent"

synonyms:

assist, aid, lend a (helping) hand to, give assistance to, come to the

I have found that I am often too afraid to help someone, because subconsciously I think it means: 'take control of the situation'. The person in-need might enjoy the "free-ride" as he/she now depends on your Help, which ultimately means "the helper is in control of the situation" -- and now, I am involved, and it's not helping anymore.

The Universe is ever giving us the message of "let go" -- "Let Go and Let God" -- Release the need to control and be guided to Help others.

Many times in my massages, I tell my clients to relax; they'll keep the legs or arms in the air and tell me "I am relaxed -- I'm trying".

What are you trying? Trying to relax or trying to control the situation in which you think is relaxed?

Trying is when we allow our ego's to help, and the ego is ever side-stepping the Higher Good 

I feel when we try do something, we ultimately controlling that situation and not letting go - letting God.

I want to be guided to help others -- in this way, I am doing that which serves my higher self and of all those involved-- and not try to help them.

Majestique

Holistic massage
Love*Energy*Balance

A little bit about me

In 2004, I qualified as a health and skincare therapist. I have worked in Botswana, South Africa and in Israel.  On my journey I have worked with spiritual teachers and healers, which has given me insightful knowledge about the body and its wonderful physical and spiritual attributes. I am now on a journey to promote holistic massage.  

I am currently studying Metaphysics, to fully express the healing power of the spiritual body.

I have diplomas in Aromatherapy, Reflexology, Hot Stone, Indian Head, Lomi-lomi, Swedish massage and Aesthetic treatments.

My technique is a combination of knowledge, experience and intuition to create ultimate relaxation and body wellbeing.

Massage is the manipulation of superficial and deeper muscles to release built-up toxins, reducing tension and thus improving body posture, ultimately improving the natural energy flow of the body.

It is both a physical and spiritual therapy to enhance the balancing of mind, body and soul.

When we go through physical or emotional trauma, we feel it in our body, our emotions as well as our soul. Our wounded souls develop certain behaviors and defense mechanisms that adversely effects and inhibits the development of our true self and creates blockages in the body’s energy system.

In my massages, I work toward helping to release these blockages and finding a balance between mind, body and spirit. I work with the spiritual male and female aspects of the body and 7 chakra systems. I solely work intuitively with each client, ultimately resulting in a unique massage for each individual.